One of the most important and alomost unavoidable decision to make in your life is to get married, even in a fast changing life, rapid canges in relations, westernisation in thoughts and demand of situation has gone very high.
There were days when parents choose a girl and the alliance happens, trend changes like time and now most of us like to settle down with our own very selection. Trend in love marriage has also changed, from “love at first sight” to “love at profession right” very sensibiliy. More and more people tend to get into relations with like-minded people, interests and professions as well. Now a days marriage is set to be a perfect platform to live life to its best of extend with keeping in mind the importance of fame, money and power as per respective apporaches. Youngsters are getting more tend to get married in late 30′s after being settled in there respective fields, have good bank balance and secure assets.
Parents have been left with very small choice and opportunity to show their infulence in the alliance, most of the things now-a-days are being settled witin the pair.
Though I believe that the understanding level between youngsters and parents has not been developed upto the mark, because of difference of opinions, apporach and experiences of both. They have thier respective view points, yet there has to be some common platform where they can share their thoughts and come to a positive conclusion. This is a family decision and needs to be taken all together but keeping in mind the trend, demand & customs in view. Religion, caste, creed, status are all secondary when it comes to the union of two souls all together.
I hope i will get responses to my first ever article published online and readers will share their experiences on this very forum.
rajivjsharma@yahoo.com
A very nicely put out article , the content and the plot show the writer’s knowledge about the topic.Its a well written article.But you could have provided with the pros and cons and at the end what according to you is best suited.